Time warp wives

A while back I wrote about the return of the submissive wife, women resorting back to a time when gals were gals, and guys and were guys.  It was shocking to read about to begin with but after some thought it  did make some sort of sense for men and women to have distinct roles in a relationship.  Having said that, despite women claiming that their lives had never been better it is still not something I could imagine following through with myself. 

So you’ve met the submissive wife, now let me introduce you to the Time warp wife.  A time warp wife not only sees her place as being the homemaker, priding herself on baking, cooking, cleaning, and making herself look pretty for when her husband comes home from work but does it all with the illusion of being in a past decade.  A time warp wife dresses in the era of the 1930’s, 40’s,  50’s, decorates her home in the style of the era, and usually, like any proper lady would have, never leaves the house without her hat and gloves and a fresh coat of lipstick.   Much like the submissive housewives these women say that they are extremely happy with their lifestyles and much of it again is to do with the clear roles in their relationship.  The woman keeps house, the man brings home the bacon, no arguments!

I suppose I am personally always so fascinated with this topic because deep down somewhere I wish life could be a little more simple again. I’m not saying I want to be one of these housewives because I do find that a little bit extreme but to be honest I actually like keeping house, I enjoy the satisfaction of having a clean, cosy home, I like baking (even if it is a bit of a hit and miss situation sometimes!), and I have no interest in having some sort of high flying career.  What really gets to me sometimes is that women who do choose these things are so looked down on these days.  Does not wanting to wear a grey suit and go to work in an office everyday striving to reach that 6 figure corporate pay check make someone less worthy in society?  Maybe everybody doesn’t have to be doing everything, and maybe that should be alright. 

If you want more information about Time Warp Wives you can check them out here;

- http://timewarpwives.blogspot.com/

- www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1042702/Time-Warp-Wives-Meet- women-really-live-past.html

- http://www.superkawaiimama.blogspot.com/

- www.venuszine.com

P.S.  Despite what I’ve said I have absolutely nothing against women who do choose to have high flying careers and admire their ability to juggle everything.  I am also aware that in today’s day and age it is very much necessary for many households to have 2 steady incomes.

x

A beginners guide to Vintage…

A beginner’s guide to Vintage

 

Why buy old clothes when you can get new ones?

1.  1.  Its fun! 
2.  2.  Find clothing that will suit your body shape.  Ever since   companies began to mass produce garments in the 1950s we have fallen  victim to ‘one style suits all’, this is clearly NOT the case.  Familiarizing yourself with tricks and styles from previous decades is a great way to discover a flattering style for you.
3.  3.  Quality.  The reason it is still possible for us to scour the shops for vintage pieces is because they have been able to last the decades.  Back before factory mass production most clothes were made by tailors, and HAND made by people at home.  Quality over quantity I always say!
4.  4.  Being unique.  When you’re wearing vintage you know you can waltz your way into any party confidently knowing that no other girl will be wearing the same dress.  In fact chances are no other girl in the world will be wearing the same frock.
5. It’s a great hobby.  Some people collect tea spoons, others hunt the stores for old records, I collect vintage.  There is nothing like rummaging through your local thrift store on a Saturday morning and finding an authentic 1940s in New Zealand made dress.  Collecting vintage is like collecting fragments of history.

 

Is there a difference between Vintage and Retro?

Yes! Yes! Yes!  The term ‘vintage’ is being thrown around so loosely these days that even last seasons range is being deemed as vintage.  The term retro could be used to describe anything from the 1970s right up to the 1990s, so it’s old, but not that old!  Vintage generally means everything from around the 1920s to the 1960s.  Oh and anything over 100 years old might also be referred to as antique.

 

Where can I find Vintage clothing in NZ?

Ok this can be a little tricky because we are such a small country so you might stumble upon the odd New Zealand made garment but most of it trickles in from overseas.  Needless to say we do have a few great shops around Auckland that ooze vintage styles,

Victorian Gilt (http://www.victoriangilt.co.nz/):  This little shop is just bursting at the seams with vintage from every era.  It is a favorite place for film crews to get authentic vintage items for movies, stylists snag pieces for fashion shoots, and everyday vintage lovers like myself can get lost in a musty heaven.

Peachy Keen ( www.peachy-keen.co.nz):  Not only does this place stock some great rockabilly style items, they are now selling custom made vintage inspired corsets! 

Tango:  This shop is amazing, and whatever you do listen to the shop owner!  This guy knows his stuff, ask him for a little advice and before you know it you’ll have an armload of dresses that fit you like a second skin.

St Kevins Arcade (On Karangahape Rd):  Here is an arcade not to be missed by vintage lovers, make sure you give yourself plenty of time because you’re not going to want to leave in a hurry.

Trade Me (www.trademe.co.nz):  Its not quite as good as ebay, but if you check in on a regular bases you are bound to find some treasures.

 

What is ‘Vintage inspired’?

Vintage inspired is just that, new clothing inspired by vintage styles!  Generally these clothes are re-productions of vintage pieces; in fact often they have been made from original vintage patterns.  The upside to vintage inspired clothing is that it’s not so fragile so you don’t have to feel guilty for actually wearing it!  Vintage inspired has become very popular over the past few years so all you need to do is Google it and you’ll find more sites than you know what to do with.  Here are a few of my favorites anyway,

Rita Sue (www.ritasue.co.nz):   This site stocks everything from shoes, stockings, dresses, lingerie, and hair accessories.  AND they are based in New Zealand so you won’t be spending a fortune on postage. 

Devol Clothing (www.devolclothing.com):  Totally vintage/ rockabilly inspired and can be made to measure.  This is my favorite label in New Zealand.  You can also check out their stuff at Frutti in Wellington.

Miss Illicit:  The brand spanking new store from the Illicit crew is Pin up heaven.

Stop Starring (www.stopstaringclothing.com/):  These guys are the king pins of vintage inspired clothing and their dresses are just to die for.

Pin up girl clothing (www.pinupgirlclothing.com):  This is like your one stop pin up shop, it stocks so many different brands with everything from pin up couture, to swimwear, to naughty Halloween costumes!

 

Where can I wear my vintage threads?

Well anywhere you like honey!  Depending on your job there is absolutely no reason why you can’t incorporate a little vintage into your everyday outfits.  But if you really want a special excuse to get fancied up then consider Swing dances, Rock ‘n’ roll dances, Hot Rod shows, Nostalgia events, and the increasingly popular Burlesque shows that are popping up around town.

Tell me more, tell me more, tell me more!! 

If you’ve been left with a little taste for Vintage and you’re curious to learn more then you NEED to hunt down a copy of ‘It’s Vintage Darling’ by Christa Weil.  This book is gold.  Trust me!